Aging isn’t just about where you live. It’s about how you live, and who’s in your corner when life gets complicated. This final piece offers tools to help you design your own vision, voice, and plan for home and care as you age.
Whether you’re a planner, a pioneer, or somewhere in between, the key is this: aging doesn’t have to mean giving up agency. You get to define what “home” means: physically, emotionally, and socially. Some people find comfort in structure. Others need creativity and choice. What matters most is making decisions while you’re able, so you can live on your terms, with the right people, the right resources, and the right plan in place.
Living near family can be a beautiful way to age with connection and support -- but only when paired with clear communication and thoughtful planning. Aging well isn’t just about being close to people. It’s about being aligned with them.
Many of us say the same thing: “I don’t want to be a burden on my children.” That’s admirable. But it may also be idealistic. Because the truth is, as we age, we often need more than just help -- we need advocacy.
As we age, life brings more curveballs. Health issues arise, priorities shift, and the possibility of losing a partner becomes more real. If one person has been out of the loop financially, managing those changes can be overwhelming.
End-of-life planning is a crucial aspect of ensuring your final wishes are honored and easing the burden on your loved ones during an emotionally challenging time. By taking proactive steps and communicating openly, you can bring peace of mind and create a meaningful legacy.